This is an off-topic subject, but I'm sick and tired of that excuse and frankly people keep using it because they think replacing out when you're not having "fun" is acceptable. I have rather strong words about this matter because it is reaching ridiculous levels and happens in games where the moderators specifically ask for attention to flaking behaviors. Because people like mastin2 make Mafia "guides" where they encourage replacing out of games.
Cabd's take is not hyperbolic. Replacing out is against the spirit of the game and against the commitment you made when signing up to play. Sure, you
want
to have fun, but you cannot forget that Mafia is a psychological game, and "fun" is not mandatory and is not going to be present during a good part of the game.
In fact:
In post 1668, Tierce wrote: In post 1667, Does Bo Know wrote:And I've always thought the golden rule was to have fun. Yes, I do understand that it's a commitment to join a game, and I do understand if I would be banned from joining any of Vi's games for a while because of the instability of my slot in this game...but I wasn't having fun, and I figured someone else would've had more fun in my slot in this game. Someone else would give the slot more attention than I was giving it. And I've never been a fan of players that complain that their play was worse for outside reasons...that's exactly what I was doing.
The golden rule is
not
to have fun. Yes, it's a game. But it's also a
psychological
game. Part of the scum's goal is to ensure the Town is so demotivated with their circumstances that they do not have the drive to read the game, to lynch well, to form Townblocks, etc. That can include deliberately sowing apathy. Replacing out because you're not having fun is not an acceptable excuse. If you're Town and you're not having fun, there's probably something in the game that needs fixed, and it's up to the playerlist to do it, not to
quit
. When you replace out, you are abandoning your win condition, so "replacing out for someone to give more attention to the slot" i.e. "for someone to be more proTown" damages a balance that was
deliberately
created
inside
the game with an event from
outside
the game.
If the game is not fun, MAKE it fun. Fight through the apathy. Go up against the scum who are producing it. Yeah, it's hard, but it's a valid scum strategy and your job as Town is to thwart that from
inside
the game. Replacing out because you're not having "fun" is not acceptable in our games and violates the integrity of the game. You made a commitment to play the game when the game started, and it was not a commitment to "play while the game is fun for me".
In post 6, AgentOrange wrote:Besides, for IC's don't you think it would be better to replace out and have a fresh one join in than having an IC that's too overwhelmed to properly teach the game stay in anyway just to set an example?
This kind of argument is a self-serving excuse for why you choose to flake on a responsibility. You're doing it for the sake of the
game
?
No, you're not. You're disrespecting the moderator, the other players, yourself. You're giving up on something you made a commitment to when you know that one of the characteristics of the game is the psychological play, and then justifying it saying that you're making the game "better" by letting someone "better" replace in. Then why did you choose to play in the first place? Wouldn't it be better to let the "better" player in from the start while you keep to a hobby better suited to you than forum Mafia?
You should stay and set the goddamn example. You know what the example is? It is someone who can handle responsibility, who recognizes apathy, and who manages to power through it despite the odds. THAT is the example that ICs should be setting, and that is the example all of our (special snow) flakes should be following. They are not, they are being
encouraged
to replace out of games.
There's no excuse for replacing out outside of a real life emergency. An
emergency
. Something that could not have been predicted and that is actually hindering your ability to make time for this responsibility, not "hey I just remembered I am spending the summer elsewhere so I have to replace out".
Plan your schedule and know yourself. Not just how much time you think you have, but how much psychological stamina you have to handle a game where apathy is a real power and a tool. There's no shame in not signing up to play, but there's quite a bit of shame in being refused entrance to a game because you have a flaking history.
Do I like playing scum? No. Does it kill my motivation to play? Yes. Have I ever replaced out of a scumgame? No. I signed up to play, I play until the moderator tells me I'm no longer part of the game. Because that's the promise I made to the moderator when signing up to their game, to the playerlist that I'm in, and to myself.