Mini 1526: OCRemix Mafia (Game Over)

[Cabd]

^That too. You never EVER want to give players setup information unless it was divulged pregame.

[Wake1]

Bulbazak, there's been something on my chest I've been wanting to say to you. If I don't it'll just simmer in the background and that's not good for anyone. But I want to say it as respectfully as I can too, because responding badly would muddle my message. So here goes.

I think it was unsporting of you to ignore me when I PM'd you, asking to view the Dead QT. You could of stood upright and told me directly what you thought and why you weren't going to let me see it. Instead you ignored me while you spoke badly of me in that QT. I don't know exactly why you didn't, but if it was because od my banning you must know that that happened as an accident, and even staff themselves know that what happened was unintentional. You're not obligated to give dead players that access, but the issue is you not having that virtue inside of you to communicate with me directly.

[Bulbazak]

I'll add something to the rules about mylo/lylo notifications. I have to update my word document anyway.

Bulbazak, there's been something on my chest I've been wanting to say to you. If I don't it'll just simmer in the background and that's not good for anyone. But I want to say it as respectfully as I can too, because responding badly would muddle my message. So here goes.

I think it was unsporting of you to ignore me when I PM'd you, asking to view the Dead QT. You could of stood upright and told me directly what you thought and why you weren't going to let me see it. Instead you ignored me while you spoke badly of me in that QT. I don't know exactly why you didn't, but if it was because od my banning you must know that that happened as an accident, and even staff themselves know that what happened was unintentional. You're not obligated to give dead players that access, but the issue is you not having that virtue inside of you to communicate with me directly.

First, yes, I probably should have responded to you, but I had a lot on my plate at the time (I'm not sure if you contacted me during my V/LA or not, but things have been increasingly hectic for me in RL as of late). I also feel that it should be understood that if you are modkilled in a game, regardless of the circumstances, you should not expect certain privileges that go along with that game, such as the dead QT. When I did look at your PM, I found it to be presumptuous, much like the rest of your posting.

Second, I was not blocking you from the QT and then talking bad about you. I was discussing the realities of this and future games WHILE YOU WERE STILL PLAYING. I was not lying when I said that several players refused to replace into this game because you were playing. I also came close to issuing a warning regarding the way you were treating other players in the game. I understand aggressive playstyles, as I have used them before as well, but you were being downright disrespectful. And yes, after my previous experience playing with you, I almost did not let you in the game. However, I do not see the playing blacklist as being the same as the modding blacklist, so I gave you a chance, one which I regretted at points. Whether you like it or not, I really don't need someone with your attitude in my games, tyvm.

[Toogeloo]

Modding games is already hard enough, trying to confront awkward situations shouldn't be a necessity. Also, if these comments:

Wake is dangerously close to joining N on my blacklist, just for the sake of future players.

As far as Wake, I'm seriously considering not letting him play in any future games. I have heard so many complaints about him, and I actually had someone refuse to replace in the game because he was playing.

...really bothered you, then you are truly too sensitive or potentially have other issues that might need looking into. He's not bad mouthing you but rather voicing opinions of his own about whether or not he wants to play with you in the future.

I have plenty of people who dislike me on this site (e.g. MagnaofIllusion, Reckomonic) and would prefer to leave a game than join playing it with me. I have a fairly abrasive style at times in a game and my scum hunting is generally less traditional which players can tend to dislike. People come in many varieties and, believe it or not, some will just not like you.

[Wake1]

Toogeloo, please don't mistake my candor for sensitivity. The only reason I mentioned this was to rid it from my system. I'm aware of my harsh abrasiveness, and am trying to balance it with respect.

[Equinox]

Mine?