Wait not BM is in this game + this new guy reminds me of Flavorleaf.
Go to ego level 1 and I won't vote you out.
-Noraa
Posted: Fri Jan 15, 2021 1:50 pm
by Flea The Magician
*sigh*
Ok my out of game text colour is being used now. You called me dude, you used it as a standard turn of phrase. Fine it happens, apologise and move on. When I get over-explained at and get given a non-apology (sorry IF that's how it came across - distancing from the action) I get annoyed. What I have implied and what you have inferred are two very different things.
I asked for something not to be done respectfully, got an over-explaination and a non-apology then accused of attacking based on someones language choices because I have acted defensively, that is a matter for concern and an act of aggression against me. I will not be silent. I've taken too much shit in life to deal with it from some random on a game message board.
Further misgendering of me will be elevated appropriately, I've had enough.
This is the end of the matter. Am I quite clear?
Posted: Fri Jan 15, 2021 1:51 pm
by Firebringer
Don’t be mean to flavor
Posted: Fri Jan 15, 2021 1:51 pm
by Finral
If Flea is scum, Oil is chainsawing Firebringer here. If Flea is town, Bell is scum here. Superbowl being town highly would indicate Guillotina being scum, and vice verse.
Oil, Guillo, Flea 100% have scum in them, alongside one on Flea or Guillo.
Honestly, I am starting to think Flea is town here, and Firebringer/Flea is TvT.
This would mean the team is either Oil, Bell, Guillo or if that's not exactly the solve, Sugarcain takes the spot somewhere in there.
Posted: Fri Jan 15, 2021 1:51 pm
by Firebringer
My post was in reference to norra
Posted: Fri Jan 15, 2021 1:52 pm
by Finral
I'm gonna stop talking to Flea, I'm from the bay area, that's not how that word works here, and I already apologized so I'm moving on. I already specifically mentioned it was my bad for having that go over my head that not everyone sees that word that way.
Ok my out of game text colour is being used now. You called me dude, you used it as a standard turn of phrase. Fine it happens, apologise and move on. When I get over-explained at and get given a non-apology (sorry IF that's how it came across - distancing from the action) I get annoyed. What I have implied and what you have inferred are two very different things.
I asked for something not to be done respectfully, got an over-explaination and a non-apology then accused of attacking based on someones language choices because I have acted defensively, that is a matter for concern and an act of aggression against me. I will not be silent. I've taken too much shit in life to deal with it from some random on a game message board.
Further misgendering of me will be elevated appropriately, I've had enough.
This is the end of the matter. Am I quite clear?
Flea doesn't have to fucking apologize here. You have no right to misgender someone and be snappy about it. Flea has every right to be upset.
Ok my out of game text colour is being used now. You called me dude, you used it as a standard turn of phrase. Fine it happens, apologise and move on. When I get over-explained at and get given a non-apology (sorry IF that's how it came across - distancing from the action) I get annoyed. What I have implied and what you have inferred are two very different things.
I asked for something not to be done respectfully, got an over-explaination and a non-apology then accused of attacking based on someones language choices because I have acted defensively, that is a matter for concern and an act of aggression against me. I will not be silent. I've taken too much shit in life to deal with it from some random on a game message board.
Further misgendering of me will be elevated appropriately, I've had enough.
This is the end of the matter. Am I quite clear?
Flea doesn't have to fucking apologize here. You have no right to misgender someone and be snappy about it. Flea has every right to be upset.
-Noraa
Never said Flea needs to, I also didn't misgender, and I apologized for it. Why do we have to keep this going? Like I literally write a diary from the perspective of a gender neutral child obviously from myself, I do have a right to be upset about it.
Posted: Fri Jan 15, 2021 1:57 pm
by Oil Tycoons
I'm back. I'm not in the best headspace that I've ever been in my life so I apologize if aggression leaks out a bit more than it typically would normally.
Posted: Fri Jan 15, 2021 1:58 pm
by Firebringer
It’s better to drop it and not litigate this further from both sides.
Or if u wish to talk about it wait till post game to have more civil conversation about it.
Posted: Fri Jan 15, 2021 1:59 pm
by Finral
Oil, I'm town here. I understand my tunnel on you has a possibility to be incorrect.
Posted: Fri Jan 15, 2021 2:00 pm
by Flea The Magician
And I speak as a genderqueer trans woman
You are outright disrespectful at this point.[/color]
Posted: Fri Jan 15, 2021 2:01 pm
by Oil Tycoons
In post 2292, Finral wrote:Like I literally write a diary from the perspective of a gender neutral child obviously from myself, I do have a right to be upset about it.
It's not an apology if you don't acknowledge that you did something wrong. Being a writer who writes about minorities doesn't add you any additional authority on them; should make you more sensitive to them but clearly that didn't work. Usually enjoy you as a person but this is a grave misstep.
Posted: Fri Jan 15, 2021 2:05 pm
by Finral
In post 2294, Firebringer wrote:It’s better to drop it and not litigate this further from both sides.
Or if u wish to talk about it wait till post game to have more civil conversation about it.
This. I will talk about it post game, if it must, but I'm incredibly passionate about the subject, and I believe that's been shown around before. Yes, it was a mistake of me to see the oversight that some people don't see the word that way.
I immediately apologized. I was never going to do it again here, so please don't keep making comments like "I will bring up to authorities if it keeps happening".
It wouldn't.
And I would fight anyone who damn would actively push that line further negatively. If someone continued to say stuff like that, I will personally let them know, in person, on thread, I don't care where. I will make sure people don't misgender people like that or move past it. That's why it upsets me when it's pushed at me like that when I have actively apologized, acknowledged it as my bad. Like I get it, but you're making me feel even worse for it, and you keep bringing it up.
Let's move past this subject and talk about it post game if we must.
In post 2292, Finral wrote:Like I literally write a diary from the perspective of a gender neutral child obviously from myself, I do have a right to be upset about it.
It's not an apology if you don't acknowledge that you did something wrong. Being a writer who writes about minorities doesn't add you any additional authority on them; should make you more sensitive to them but clearly that didn't work. Usually enjoy you as a person but this is a grave misstep.
I am Non Binary half of the time, so like, fuck off.