This. Although for me it's less about devotion (I get SUPER obsessive about my hobbies) and more about lack of time. I am a single parent with a full time job and halftime school. I really like playing mafia, but I literally cannot keep up with a power spamming gamestyle.after you get to a certain point in your life... you just don't have that kind of devotion to power through that kind of crap like you used to.
I do not see how it is 'bullying' for me to recognize and respect my personal limitation so I can better enjoy my hobby in the time I have?